90 Day Fiancé Drama: Sarper Tells Shekinah to Pay $1K per Pound Over 128 lbs in Prenup Dispute

A recent episode of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way has left fans stunned after Sarper Güven made a controversial suggestion during a prenup discussion with fiancée Shekinah Garner. When Shekinah raised the idea of a prenuptial agreement at dinner with friends, Sarper reacted strongly—claiming it was offensive in his culture—and responded with a shocking proposal of his own.

He suggested that Shekinah should be fined $1,000 for every pound she gains over 128 pounds, to be checked on a monthly basis. While Sarper tried to frame the idea as a form of compromise, his suggestion was immediately met with outrage from Shekinah’s friends and widespread backlash online.

This isn’t the first time Sarper’s behavior has raised eyebrows. Throughout their relationship, he has repeatedly imposed strict expectations on Shekinah’s appearance—from dictating her weight to suggesting changes to her makeup, hair, and even cosmetic procedures. Many viewers see this as a clear pattern of control masked by affection.

Shekinah appeared unsurprised by the comment, describing it as Sarper’s way of retaliating against her prenup idea. However, fans have voiced deep concern over the dynamic between the two, with some fearing that Shekinah is being pressured into accepting unreasonable demands in the name of love.

The incident has reignited important conversations about body autonomy, relationship boundaries, and emotional manipulation. While cultural values can influence a relationship, respect and mutual consent must always come first.

As the show continues, fans are eager to see whether Shekinah will set healthy boundaries—or continue compromising herself for Sarper’s expectations.